Overweight, Alone and Seeking Love and Acceptance

So you are overweight and you feel very self conscious about anyone seeing you naked because of the way you look.  You are afraid that as soon as you were to wear that clothing you love
someone would make fun of you behind your back.  You spend your days at work and you spend your nights alone and as you watch television you long for someone as special  as all of those fictional TV characters seem to have.  Sometimes you feel as if you are lost in the world as a stranger in the sea of faces that pass you by daily.  You go to work and you come home and once again here you sit, all alone and wanting more out of your life.  You are overweight and that obesity is what you believe is what isolates you from the world where social action occurs.  We here at I Choose Thin want you to know that we can hear the silent screams of the millions of overweight people who are seeking out a companion because they are alone. We are here to offer you a hint of hope.

At our website (IChooseThin.com) we have gathered so much information from firsthand knowledge.  We have been through the part about being overweight and being alone and did not like that portion of our lives.  We are glad you are reading this short page because we want you to know that by seeking you have begun the first step towards healing.  That healing is not some magical pill or weight loss gadget that will cause you to just wake up and be thin and be in love.The healing you are seeking does not begin in your kitchen but it starts in your mind.The fact that you are reading this page right here and right now demonstrates that you are searching for a solution that will allow you to not be alone anymore. 

One main thing about being alone is that it really is your choice.  This may sound strange but what sex are you?  Are you a male or a female?  Up until this point in the article we have refrained from the discussion and you felt as if we were talking about you and we did not know what your sex was.  The point is that it does not matter whether you are a male or a female because everyone craves to be with another.  To think that you are the only overweight man is just as absurd that you are the only overweight female.  Yet here we all sit in this world, all of us alone and yet we all seek companionship.  If you are overweight and alone then the choice really has been one you made because the world has lonely obese people reading this article every day.  The problem of being alone really has little to do with your weight as it does have to do with your choice to be alone.


If you are overweight and want to be thinner and with a companion then start to make the things happen in your life that will allow you to proceed in that direction.  My companion and I have found great comfort in the teachings of Dr. Wayne Dyer and have applied them to all aspects of our lives.  He offers so much wisdom in how to live a better life that when the man speaks you are compelled to listen.  Why we recommend Wayne Dyer is because by taking his advice we were not only able to take control of our weight but also take control of how we lived our life.  To understand this you need to hear and read what he says for he is one of the kindest and gentlest men you will ever meet.

At the same time you listen to Wayne Dyer we suggest you look into eDiets which is a wonderful online organization for people seeking goals in weight loss.  In the eDiets world you have an endless array of groups to join and meet with online.  This social life is only the beginning as you will be able to start to crawl out of your aloneness by realizing that there are many obese people out in the world who are tired of being alone.  You may be scared to meet someone on the internet but that statement only demonstrates negativity in your belief that you do not have to be alone!  Sure you have to be careful but when are you not suppose to careful?  The world is what it is and eDiets is a great place to not only start to lose some weight but it also is a great place to meet a person with your same interests at heart.

The point we desire you to take with you today is that you may be alone and that really has been your choice and if you are tired of being alone then why not start to make different choices.  Online dating services are also a decent place to start and the fact that they exist is proof that there is no reason for you to be alone!

We want you to be able to cuddle up on your couch with the person you love and that only begins when you start to make the choices we discussed.  Whatever you decide to do rest assured that you may be making the choice at the same time you’re soon to be mate is making theirs.  It all has to begin somewhere so why not decide to make some changes now and choose to stop being alone.

We want you to be able to cuddle up on your couch with the person you love and that only begins when you start to make the choices we discussed.  Whatever you decide to do rest assured that you may be making the choice at the same time you’re soon to be mate is making theirs.  It all has to begin somewhere so why not decide to make some changes now and choose to stop being alone.



3 Responses to Overweight, Alone and Seeking Love and Acceptance

  • I thought dating was a young man’s game. Guess I was mistaken!

  • Dating On Net says:

    I recently came accross your blog and have been reading along. I thought I would leave my first comment. I dont know what to say except that I have enjoyed reading. Nice blog. I will keep visiting this blog very often.

  • Online Dating says:

    I found this article very interesting! I will forward it on and hopefully you will continue this subject.
    Thx!

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