Military Wives and Husbands Looking For Weight Loss

If your husband is in the military and you are gaining weight you may need to lose a few pounds to continue to fit into the “crowd”.  If you’re a guy and your wife is in the military while you are overweight then you really need to start thinking about dropping some of that weight.  If your branch of service is the Navy or Air Force the need to lose the weight may not be as essential to that as being in the Army.  If you are a dependant of someone in the United States Marine Corps and you are starting to look rotund next to your spouse you really need to consider some form of weight loss. If you are worring there is some cheating going on what can you do to help prevent it?   The reason for this is not because of the trophy effect your spouse will have with you standing next to them but because of the fact that your very health and also your relationship may be in jeopardy.  If you are an officer’s wife this information is about six times more relevant than that of an enlisted spouse.

The reason why you are feeling so self conscious of your weight is because most sections of the Armed Forces stress physical fitness and when you are not fit you are a standout.  If your spouse is in the Marine Corps and in the infantry and is fit and trim and you are 40 pounds overweight you run the risk of looking frumpy.  As your spouse travels the world it may be unfair that you get to stay home and tend to the daily chores.  If this is your life it is easy to get lost in the routine of running the daily schedule.  The problem is that as your spouse is traveling the world his/her eyes may start to wander with all of the eye candy that populates this planet.  If you do not take care of yourself you may not only stop being eye candy you may just end up being a “sucker”.

You really should not be sitting at home tending to the kids and the family van and not be taking care of yourself.  If you are not doing something for yourself to lose weight or just get healthy chances are you blame someone else for your current situation.  Sadly though, after all of the blame has been tossed around you will find yourself tossed of the base and not being a dependant at all anymore because you were dumped.

This is not to say that all spouses are cheaters or that you are being cheated on at all.  What we hope you will do is just start to spend some time on yourself.   The reality of it all is that if you do not take care of yourself how can you do a good job taking care of someone else?  How can you feel sexy in bed if you do not even feel comfortable by what you see in the mirror?  How can you hope to preserve your relationship if you are not willing to preserve your own well being first?  We want you to notice that we are speaking about the generic term of spouse and not specifically male or female.  The sex does not matter because the desires are there for either sex.  Also in today’s world a spouse needs to always ensure their mate is sexually satisfied or the temptation of side sex is much more possible.
In closing you need to get into shape and lose weight because it will keep you around longer.  Not only will losing weight will make you healthier and keep you alive longer, it may also keep your relationship alive longer also.   If you get into shape and lose those pounds your spouse may stick around longer also.  If you can’t move around in bed to satisfy your mate your bedroom will lose the glitter of those early days.  As time goes on there is no reason why your bed has to become dull and if it dies it may be because of your weight.  If your weight makes you shuddder and wince as you pass the mirror then you and you alone can make that change.  That change only needs to begin today and it does not mean that it all has to happen today.

Babies are not conceived and born in a day so do not stress out if you are dealing with baby weight gain because weight loss takes time.  You just need to get started and that is all that matters today.  Tomorrow is not here yet so you just have today.  If you can always get through today, the tomorrows will take care of themselves.